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Many of my busy friends have met their partners online. It's soooo easy to pick up somebody in a bar in this town. 'You screwed my girlfriend so I'm going to drop you from my Facebook page! Now I find being single and successful in Duluth is not a recipe for instant dates, especially over 40. yep, I clearly am not doing jack shit and have no business calling the Duluth dating scene dismal.
Avoid Craigslist, Yahoo personal ads and other free ads because they are full of weirdos. I went to a small women's college in the early '80s -- which was a mile away from a small men's college. Could you tell us more about how awesome you are so we can aspire to be like you. I wasn't calling out anyone in particular except those who fail to get out in the public sphere and do things.
You get out what you put into it, nobody is going to do it for you and bitching about it does not make it better. The more people you meet, the better the odds of finding someone interesting or attractive. Lacking the convictions of those who are hungry, yet questioning not their own.
Everyone likes to be flattered, complimented or feel they are attractive to others, so if you meet or see someone who interests you, introduce yourself and say something nice. If you are new to Duluth and/or a busy working professional consider a paid online service such as Heated garages, big screen televisions, robot dating, shag carpeting, F'n Twitter. Going to all the social activities is not always successful. I've spent many years being single, by choice, while I built my career and raised my kids. Every one of the posters (myself included) expressing their frustration is clearly a lazy, un-motivated, sorry SOB who deserves to be single. Self-employed for most of my career life in a position that requires much social interaction, race director for an event where I'm exposed to 2000 people in a two week time frame, volunteer, on (80% scary), attend most university hockey games, coach, live-music scene follower....
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A recent conversation with some friends brought up the question…what’s up with the Duluth dating scene? Does the sometimes inclement weather force us to stay home rather than go out and socialize? I've been at this for 2.5 years now, and I'm not hurting for offers, just offers that I would ever even contemplating accepting. The other sad part of it is that thing that runs through people's minds: "Why is he (or she) still single? No doubt, if you don't already know people in town (or even if you do! There are very few activities other than the bar/music scene, which for many people loses its gloss after you're like 28. I think not being able to find someone is more the result of laziness and a lack of effort combined with a perceived lack of options. Dating and finding someone that's right for you is not supposed to be easy, if you want a hookup that's a lot easier but it sounds like a relationship is what people are searching for, and those things are not just going to fall into your lap. People forgot that all the things mentioned, plus cloistered midwesterners who are as cliquey as anyone, in their shallow gene pools, adding to this the low light levels during brutal winters can get a person pretty down when they start to consider the tired patterns of Homo Eroticus.
If you want to find out who likes you, start using the dating page.It was hard to know whether or not you were dating or just friends with someone -- basically, if you were sleeping with that person, you were dating. Maybe I was off, but listening to some of the posts made it sound like people were just cooped up inside all the time and that is what I was talking about.Dating and relationships are not going to happen if you just stay inside and don't try.Looking for a date is like looking for money on the sidewalk -- sometimes you get lucky, but most of the time there's just dog poop.Instead of looking for a date, why not spend some energy volunteering with an organization or group who has the same values/concerns that you do.